So over the past few weeks the Myers Madness has grown in numbers. We have had a guest in our home sharing with our families experiences and learning a few new tricks himself. Sean came to visit and it has been a new experience for all. First I have to say I congraulate all of those parents with more than one child. Justin and I daily hope to have another baby but when we consider increasing our numbers we never think about having another TODDLER. The experience of sharing time with Sean has been both a blessing and at other times we

couldn't be more tired. Between learning to not cry, play nice, potty training, two baths a d
ay, endless loads of laundry and m
aking sure everyone ate enough during the day we barely have enough time to think about what it is that we need as parents to survive. But one thing we have learned is what it means to really be a parent. It's not about being an adult or being in charge, but a lot of it is becoming a kid again. Kids don't want to go to Wal-Mart or the grocery store. They want to play with all those toys you bought them!!! They also don't want to play with those toys alone, Ellie is constantly wanting Justin and I to show her how the toys work and her show us she knows how they work. While Sean has been here I have been amazed at the information he can recall from watching Disney movies. He knows the charac

ters, songs and even the plots of some movies and he loves to tell us about them. Kids need their parents to be innocent and fun and a big part of their daily activity. They want us to roll around
on the ground, paint a picture and maybe eat a bite of play dough. I think when you have only one kid, especially a kid that is as amazing as Ellie, you really don't understand the patience it takes to be a parent. The most important thing I learned didn't come from the kids at all, but my amazing sister. When we were talking about some of the frustrations of being a parent she explained to me that kids aren't the frustrations but they are the victims of our frustrations. So often we send our kids to time out to give them a break away from the contention, but I have discovered tha

t time out should really be for adults. The adults need the break away from the chaos just as much as the kids do.
Over the past month we have had a lot of fun. Most of the fun we have is pretty daily for us, meaning it isn't any different than what we normally do, we just have another body to share in the excitement. We have definately had a messier house than we usually do and we ha
ven't had a lot of people over but we have found fun in our own little space.
Justin and I have joked with eachother about how excited we will be to get our lives back to normal when Sean goes home with his mom. Yesterday at the Robinson Family Dinner my mom whispered in my ear, "you are going to miss him when he is gone" and I think she is right. Even though there have been a few struggles day to day I think our home will be a much sadder quiet than it has been for the past two weeks.

I think Sean has become part of our family and daily routine. Just as it took time for us to get used to Sean I think it took Sean time to get used to us. I feel like we have finally made it to a point where we understand eachother and are working towards the same goals. All of this happened just as it became time for him to leave in a couple days. I know that Ellie will miss having a constant companion...someone she can drag around the house and show how to have fun. She is a natural born leader and always wants to show people the way to the party and excitement. She is the first to let the family know it is time for dinner and always wants to make sure everyone has a treat and a drink for the movie. She isn't very motherly but I think she will make a good big sister someday making sure everyone knows the ropes.